Friends Club offers children with ASD (Autism Spectrum Disorders) a safe, and nurturing environment to develop play skills, social skills, and friendships with peers. This program is vendorized by the Regional Center of the East Bay for six months of participation.
My daughter Rhiannon is a Girl Scout and needs community service hours to reach certain goals. My friend Adryon works at Milestones, where Friends Club is offered. Rhiannon volunteers during Friends Club to play with and socialize with the kids. Last week was her first week and she was quite shy, which is normal in a new group. She handled herself very well and by the end of the 1.5 hours of play and circle time, she was feeling much more comfortable. The facilitators are AMAZING. They are patient, calm, kind and loving. They made Rhiannon feel comfortable and do a great job directing and focusing the energy of the children in the group.
I asked Adryon what I should say about ASD and Friends Club and her response was:
"I think there's a lot to know about autism. People are afraid of our kids, scared to break them or that they will get broken. I always get 'that's like rain man'... Ugh NO! There's a lot of misconceptions, like if a kid doesn't answer yell louder! Let's see... Honestly the best thing is to say is that our kids aren't freakish and are human with real feelings."
As with many things, people are afraid of what they don't understand. From the Autism Society of America website:
Autism is a complex developmental disability that typically appears during the first three years of life and affects a person's ability to communicate and interact with others. Autism is defined by a certain set of behaviors and is a "spectrum disorder" that affects individuals differently and to varying degrees. There is no known single cause for autism, but increased awareness and funding can help families today.
Autism is treatable, not curable.
Studies show that early diagnosis and intervention lead to significantly improved outcomes.
Here are some signs to look for in the children in your life:
- Lack of or delay in spoken language
- Repetitive use of language and/or motor mannerisms (e.g., hand-flapping, twirling objects)
- Little or no eye contact
- Lack of interest in peer relationships
- Lack of spontaneous or make-believe play
- Persistent fixation on parts of objects
Today Rhiannon is excited to go play with her new friends at Friends Club. If you have the time, please learn more about ASD at the Autism Society of America.
Have a great day! We're off to Friends Club!

